If distrust exists or one is concealing certain aspects from the other, it is very difficult to reach real ecstasy and happiness. It is necessary that both of you share your daily decisions, so that you are not bound by commitments that previously have not been planned jointly.
You see, this was what got me really agitated time and time again with both Adi & KS, the fact that they rarely share things with me. I had told them everything about myself, but yet they seemed to enjoy leading mysterious lives. Sometimes I wonder, why ah?
You see, I really hate it when my other half isn't being transparent cos' that'd lead to me doubting their honesty, and when that happens, the insecure jealous-strikened bitch in me rages out of control.
Mind you, not a second goes by after that where I hate myself for letting my doubtful thoughts get the best of me. It really is a sucky feeling, so why let me go through that?
In conclusion, the moral of the story is; Maman responds to honesty & transparency. Therefore, always be transparent (and honest) with Maman about anything and everything, even if it's about that hole in your underwear!
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